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 Here
are few helpful Tips that you can use in to
improve your chances of success in finding and
obtaining the perfect lifelong partner from
our service. We at Love Of Asia Vietnam through
our own experiences in dealing with the women
in Vietnam believe that there are definite guide
lines which can help you to not make the same
mistakes as others have in the past. In addition,
benefit from others who do have very successful
and happy relationships with these exceptional
women. We Do Not guarantee that you will win
the heart of any woman based on the advice we
give you, but we are confident the advice will
put you a mile ahead of the game. Remember,
we are an introduction service so all the tips
we give are aimed only towards the first few
steps of introducing yourself and how to respond
to the women in the beginnings of your correspondence
with her.
- Before you read further we want to say that
any of the advice or realities written in this
section SHOULD NOT DISCOURAGE YOU in the least.
These women are using our service because they
ARE available and want to find a true life long
partner.
- If you are really interested in a certain
lady do not send your first letter without a
photograph of yourself. Remember the women from
our service are very attractive and appealing
so you can bet that one lady is probably exchanging
letters with a few different men already. So
you want to improve your chances by letting
her see you in a photograph. A picture speaks
a thousand words. Most of the women have some
English skills but if she receives a letter
from you and she can't see your face she most
likely won't take the time to read your letter.
Put yourself in her shoes, Which men would you
reply to?
- Keep your first letter short and sweet. Don't
overwhelm the lady with a letter that is too
wordy and long. Introduce yourself and maybe
give her a few reasons why you have chosen to
write to her in particular. Compliments never
hurt but, don't over do it or she will think
you are not being sincere.
- Spell her name correctly and in the right
order. This makes a nice, logical first impression.
Read more on Vietnamese names in the lower section
of this page.
- Read her bio carefully and try to comment
on what she has taken the time out to write
about herself. Dont concentrate too much on
her beauty or she will think that you dont
want to know her as person.
- Be patient. Try not to get to frustrated because
of the time it takes for the ladies to reply.
Vietnam is still learning to do the regular
things we take for granted such as mailing a
letter. It takes time to send and receive post
to and from Vietnam. If you think you have lost
communication with a lady try sending her a
letter telling her you know the mail takes a
long time sometimes and you just want to let
her know you are still thinking about her.
Vietnamese women DO NOT believe in love at first
sight. This is a purely western phenomenon.
Be careful not scare the lady by telling her
you love her or that she is definitely THE ONE
based on her photograph only. There are ways
to let the women know that she is special and
that you have a good feeling about her by her
picture without coming on too strong. If you
do make this mistake you will spend forever
trying to explain to her why you feel this way
about her. Because she will definitely question
your sincerity and motives, and most likely
be quite blunt about it. Or she will be so overwhelmed
by you she won't write you back. Take your time
and as we have said and will say again, these
women most of all want understanding. Vietnamese
women look for men that pay attention to the
way they feel and the way they think. The ladies
of Vietnam know this takes a little time and
will not over look their beliefs on the matter.
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- Here a few subjects to be avoided the start
of correspondence:
- The Vietnam War, there is a saying here...
Vietnam is a country NOT a War!... Vietnam
has truly put the war past them and the
people here would much rather talk about
future their country than the past.
- Death in the family, if a lady mentions
that her mother or father has passed away,
in your reply let her know you are sorry
to hear this and leave at that. Don't ask
why, or ask what happened or she will think
you are very impolite if you continue the
subject.
- Your past love life, Be honest with her
if you are divorced and or have children,
but the ladies won't want to hear the details
of your past romances.
- Sex, Please avoid this topic at all costs
in the beginning of correspondence. This
is an embarrassing subject that can easily
make the lady feel uncomfortable.
Vietnamese women can easily feel appreciated
by the little things that you do for her. This
does not mean she is small minded, it means
she knows that she is not forgotten or neglected.
We know men can get very busy in their work
life and these women know this also. The difference
between these women and women from the west
is that most will be very supportive of your
work life as long as she knows you still think
about her. During the Vietnam War Vietnamese
women faithfully waited literally years for
their loved ones too come home. During this
time they kept their families together and in
many cases had to provide for their families
just as the man would. You might think this
is an extreme example but the point is that
they know their responsibility as a partner.
They won't forget you so don't forget them!
learn 20 words in Vietnamese and you will be
very surprised by her reaction and will have
just put yourself 20 steps in front of the guy
who didn't learn any words.
Vietnam is a very superstitious country and
relies on luck as their guide to a brighter
future. We suggest that you read a little about
the Chinese Calendar ,which is the calendar
the Vietnamese follow. This is a subject that
all the ladies will enjoy.
If you ask a Vietnamese woman about handsome
men they will tell you that they would much
rather have an honest and faithful man. So don't
worry about how you look to them, concentrate
on making the lady feel secure in the fact that
you won't leave her for another woman. We say
this in all honesty and confidence. It may sound
like a sales tactic to some, but we encourage
you to ask anyone who has had any dealings with
Vietnamese women and they will confirm what
we have just told you. Or read the bios and
count how many request handsome men, or ask
just ask her yourself.
Money can't buy love we all know this, but these
women are not rich by any means. We can't guarantee
some won't ask for money so just be careful
and use common sense. If you feel comfortable
sending money, we at Love Of Asia Vietnam will
not tell you not to do this. We will tell you
to be aware and take care. There are many ways
to show your support without sending money,
and if you send gifts try to make them functional
and appropriate, but don't forget the flowers
and chocolates, they are still women and love
the same things as most other women love.
If some sort of misunderstanding arises during
correspondence it is most likely due to a language
barrier. So sometimes you might have to be very
patient and try to be as clear as possible as
to your intentions. Don't give up on her because
it takes a little work to understand each other.
You might have to tell her the same thing twice,
you might have to ask her to please be patient
with YOU and not to give up on YOU. If you can
do this gently and sincerely you have a 1000
times more of a chance to patch up any rocky
moments in the beginning stages of correspondence.
- We hope this information will be helpful to
you. If you have any questions we will be glad
to answer them as best we can. But truly the
best advice we can give is "BE YOURSELF". That
might be exactly what she is looking for!
- One of the great myths about the women in
Vietnam is that they are submissive by nature.
Qualities such as devotion and loyalty are often
misinterpreted for submissiveness. Vietnamese
women have a long history of being faithful,
loyal and devoted to family, country, and culture.
- If you ask a Vietnamese man to describe the
women of their country submissiveness would
not be one the characteristics used in their
portrayal of the women in Vietnam.
- Vietnamese women are extremely hard working
and resourceful. As history has proved in the
difficult times of the country when the women
fought along side the men, but they are very
gentle and very feminine by nature and are equally
as comfortable in a domestic situation as in
a social environment.
- One reason that many men have found Vietnamese
women so appealing is the fact that they are
very intelligent and capable in most situations
and are exceptionally good with organizing the
household budget as well as a natural shrewdness
in business dealings. Their loyalty to family
and spouse makes them also very trustworthy
with the right mate.
- In comparison to the rest of Asia, Vietnam
is one of the only counties that has truly kept
it's traditions and culture alive. This can
be contributed to the women of Vietnam for they
are ones to sustain and nurture the age old
traditional beliefs of their elders and ancestors.
One of the finest examples is the traditional
Vietnamese dress "The Ao Dai" ( Pronounced Ou
Yai ) beautiful, sleek and extremely feminine.
The Ao Dai represents the purity and virility
of the women in Vietnam.
- Vietnamese women make the ideal lifelong companions
for any man in search of family values and a
strong long lasting relationship. The key to
a successful marriage or friendship with a Vietnamese
woman is to remember that Vietnamese women are
in search of the man that can truly understand
and value her as a person and a woman. They
are definitely not simple by nature, but are
easily pleased when felt appreciated and loved.
- What's in a name? Vietnamese names are both
interesting and complex. Most Vietnamese names
are derived from China names thousands of years
ago. The majority of names have a specific meaning
or concept, which relates to many things such
as, beauty, strength or natural phenomenon.
Here a few examples: Hoa, which is pronounced
hwa, means flower, Ngoc, which is pronounced
nop, means precious stone, Tuyet, which is pronounced
Twit means snow and Trang, which is pronounced
trume, means loyal.
- The order of Vietnamese names are opposite
to that of western names. The family name (last
name) is always on the left. The first name,
(Given name) is always on the right. Vietnamese
names have anywhere from 3 to 5 parts. First
name, middle name, last name and a classifier.
The family name comes from the father. The middle
name can come from the mother's maiden name
or it can be a chosen name by the parents. The
first name is a chosen name just as any first
name in the west. Example; Nguyen Thi Hong Minh,
Nguyen is the family name, Thi is the classifier,
Hong is the middle name, and Minh is the first
name.
- If you browse through some of the photos on
this site and read the bios you will see that
many of the Vietnamese girls have the word Thi
in their name. Thi is a classifier that lets
you know this name belongs to a woman. Most
Vietnamese names have no gender, which is to
say that they can be used for both men and women.
Thi is a classifier used for a woman and Van
is a classifier used for a man.
 Knowing
how to write, pronounce and having an idea of
what the ladies names means will always make
them feel appreciated and she will know you
are truly interested in her. Imagine her receiving
your first letter and the first thing she notices
is that you have written her name incorrectly.
A good first impression is one of the keys to
success with Vietnamese women, and a small thing
such as a name can make all the difference.
Remember, you never get a second chance at a
first impression.
- We sincerely hope that we can help you find
the Asian woman of your dreams, a person you
can honestly call your partner for life.
- THIS IS REAL!... This is maybe one of the
things that will change your life forever, and
create more happiness than you ever knew before.
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